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When You're Texting A Guy And He Stops Replying

Nothing is more frustrating - and more common, it seems - than the experience of texting a guy and he stops replying to you. You get GHOSTED.

It sounds like some kind of supernatural disease - GHOSTING... but it's one of the most common dating experiences these days.

In fact, it's become pretty common for guys to stop texting women without much of a warning or any explanation for why.

Now, to be fair, women do the same thing to guys. But since this is a report for women, we're only going to talk about the reasons guys do it. And how you can - hopefully - fix it.

"Why do guys text me and then disappear?"
"Was it something I said that made him stop responding?"
"I thought we were doing so good - What the heck happened?"

You may have asked yourself these questions, too. I'm here to help you out - and show you the reasons why guys stop replying to your texts - and help you get past this obstacle to finding a quality boyfriend.

Why Did He Stop Communicating?
First off, you have to realize that men don't think about texting the way women do. This is really important because most women assume that men take texting really seriously.

The reality is that men don't really like to text all that much. Oh sure, he will say that he likes to text his friends and his family. But the truth is that most guys only text when they absolutely have to. Or just to touch base and pass along some logistical information.

Texting is a fun little playground for a guy who has just met a woman. He will text you to gauge whether or not you're actually interested in him.

But the game can get tiring really quick for guys. Which is why we tend to ignore our phones to get a little bit of a break.

There are a lot of reasons that a guy might stop texting you.

Reason 1: He's involved with someone else...
Well, the truth is that this is a possible reality. A lot of people go out and date a lot of other people. Which means that if you weren't able to stay in his " favorite zone" then he may have moved on.

Of course there's also the possibility that he was never free in the first place. Meaning, yes, he was married. Or in another relationship.

Or somehow otherwise attached.

Now, don't get judgy. Studies say that at least one third of all women online dating are actually just looking for some attention they're not getting in their current relationship. That's right, they're just in need of validation.

Some may be shopping to see if they really want to end their current relationship for something new.

So it's not something that just guys do.

Sometimes the person we meet isn't the one for us. No matter how much we might like them to be, we realize on some level that they weren't a good fit.

I've had plenty of first dates where I was so sure that it would have been a great connection, but the woman inevitably ghosted me. Yes, it happens on both sides of the fence.

Reason 2: He lost interest...
Yes, this is certainly a possibility. It does happen quite frequently.

And depending on how you met this guy, that could happen a lot.

Let's face it: In the absence of reminders about how much chemistry we felt, we will just assume that there was none.
Men are very visual. Which means that if he doesn't have something to remind him of you, it can be difficult for him to remember a good reason to chase you.

And this could have nothing to do with how attractive you are. The simple fact of the matter is that if he doesn't have a potent reminder of his experience with you, there's a good chance he will just lose his interest.

You will fade out of his awareness.

This is actually pretty easy to fix. You just have to know some strategies for how to text the guy to remind him. And it also helps to know what to do on those important first dates.

We'll come back to this in a bit...

Reason 3: It's HIS problem!
The fact is that whatever the problem is that makes him stop texting and connecting with you, it's his problem - Not yours.

There are a billion-and-one different reasons why a guy might not be able to stay in contact and keep texting you.

For example:

He's focusing on his job...
He's got family issues pulling on him...
He had an emergency...
He lost his phone - or it broke...
He got back together with an ex...
He lost his job...
He started a new job... or a new business...
He had a change of heart about dating...

The real lesson here is to -

For the rest of the info - watch the video!

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When You're Texting A Guy And He Stops Replying
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