"Help! The Guy I Like Has A Girlfriend!"

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You’ve met the perfect guy. He’s cute, funny, and he puts a smile on your face whenever he’s near. You two seem to be getting along great...there’s only one problem…his girlfriend.

Hi, I’m Amy North. I’m a relationship coach and love expert. It’s my passion to help single men and women get together. They keyword there is single. But today, I’m going to tell you what to do when the guy you like has a girlfriend.

This is a question I get A LOT. “He seems like he likes me but he has a girlfriend.” “He’s so nice to me but he has a girlfriend.” Do I still have a chance?

A lot of my business is about decoding subtle signals between men and women to figure out if they’re a good match and if they have a future together. This one doesn’t take a lot of investigation. He’s giving you a pretty clear signal that you’re not a good match: he has a girlfriend. No matter how nice he is to you, how flirty he is, he’s DEFINITELY unavailable. There’s nothing you can do to change that.

Before we go any further, we need to establish the scenario you’re in. Now these tips work no matter who you are but I think you have the best chance of getting what you want if this is your situation: you have a crush on this guy, he has a girlfriend, he’s clearly interested in you too but isn’t willing to cross the line. If she saw your text messages she wouldn’t be happy but nothing either of you have done could be considered inappropriate or cheating.

Here’s why this is a good place to be. If you’ve gone beyond that, you’re sleeping together or your talking non stop about your feelings and your connection, then I can’t help you. This guy has proven that he’s willing to cheat on his girlfriend so even if he leaves her for you, there’s no reason not to think he won’t cheat on you next. Plus, you’re already giving him what he wants. He has a girlfriend at home and a lover on the side. Why would he leave her for you?

Going the other way, if you’re interested in him and he’s showing no sign that he feels the same way about you other than common courtesy, you’re in a bad situation. I’d advise you to walk away. There are plenty of guys out there who are right for you. No matter how perfect this guy is, he’s not perfect for you because he has a girlfriend.

But if you’re right in the middle, there are a few things you can do to increase your chances of getting what you want, if only slightly. This video isn’t going to tell you how to steal him away from her and live happily ever after. It’s about positioning yourself as best you can so that if they do break up, he’ll know that you’re interested and he’ll be interested too. I’ll tell you how to flirt without crossing the line and how to keep your heart and your sanity safe in the process.

The good news is that if he’s flirting with you then that’s a sign that his relationship might be on the way out. What can you do to speed the process up? Nothing. And that’s my first tip.

DON’T try to break them up

Don’t even mention his girlfriend or his relationship...there’s just one exception that I’ll cover later. Guys don’t want you to try to compete for your love or prove that you’re better than his girlfriend. Many men flirt with other women because their relationship is difficult and complicated. If you’re angling to break them up then you’re adding complication and difficulty to his life, which is just what he’s been trying to avoid.

That’s why my next tip is… Just be friends




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